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In the poem "A Valediction of Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne the persona is trying to convey a message to his lover that although they are going to be separated they will still have a union of love. In this poem, the persona attempts to persuade his lover to ....

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.... Therefore, I ask, "aren't we all guilty at one point or another while in a love relationship of trying to convey a message to a loved one and they in turn have misinterpreted that message?" The poem begins "As virtuous men pass mildly away, And whispering their souls to go." Here the persona is trying to convey to his lover that she should deal with his leaving as though it is a death. Not a death in which she should be sad, but of a death of a man that was a very good human being who will go peacefully and calmly to heaven. Also, that she has nothing to fear because in actuality he is not dying but just going away and for her to remember that they ....