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That you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. - That no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. - That it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. ....

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.... the person I want to be. I've learned - That it's a lot easier to react than it is to think. I've learned - That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them. I've learned - That you can keep going long after you think you can't. I've learned - That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. I've learned - That either you control your attitude or it controls you. I've learned - That regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be some ....